Sorry to rain on your parade but there are other servers that have what you are explaining as their exp rate. If not, close to it. This is a x1x1x1 server for a reason. And the best x1x1x1 private server on gtop. Everyone here is playing Phoenix for the nostalgic grind we all did when we were younger. Only thing that isn't nostalgic about the server is how it allows multi clienting.
But if you want to play a server that's easier then there is multiple others for just for you.
Also, what level is your main Opman? If it's not 70 then you haven't even hit the struggle yet.